Remember when you first got with your husband and your love life was fantastic? When there were fireworks, and so much passion and fun in the bedroom, and now those days seem far away because your love life seems to be in a rut.
Sometimes you can’t wait for the other person to step it up because they don’t know your needs or wants unless you tell them which brings us to our first point. Talk about it. Perhaps there are some fantasies you or your partner would like to try. Or perhaps pick out a naughty movie to watch together. They can’t fix anything unless you let them know there is something wrong.
Another way of helping your love life is stepping up. There are plenty of adult stores that have naughty costumes which is a fun way of spicing up the bedroom. Not to mention Victoria Secret, Secrets in Lace, Figleaves and plenty of other stores sell a lot of sexy lingerie. If you are not accustomed to lingerie or nervous remember your husband loves you regardless and confidence is key. Lingerie is not only made to look appealing to the opposite sex but it makes you feel sexy as well.
Also, they have dance classes that may be beneficial in the bedroom. For example there are pole dancing classes, strip tease classes, and classes that teach to do lap dancing or for a less risque type of dance belly dancing. Again this is where the lingerie and high heels play a part in this, put on something that makes you feel sexy, have confidence and dance.
Plus, there are many different sex positions you and your lover can try. Some are more “kinky” than others and some are just painful looking but experiment with a few to find what you like. And if you don’t know many other positions there are books, movies, and even websites that give you lists of them and their names. Perhaps you could search through them togather?
When he gets home from work “pounce him.” Be wearing something sexy when he walks in or give him a passionate kiss and tell him how badly you’ve been wanting him. It also works if you send him a naughty text or email.
Not to mention there are books, websites, even how to videos to help you become more sexy, exciting, and are dedicated to help you better your love life. Barnes and Nobles usually has a section on sexual health that do involve sex games, idea books, how to books. But the main thing is, don’t be embarrassed doing any of this. And if you are or unsure your partner will enjoy it talk about it. Communication is key, as I said before as much as we’d like them to be, your man will never be a mind reader.