Oh, you thought this article was going to teach you how to facilitate the destruction of a marriage. Men cheat so frequently because there are so many women willing to cheat with them. Nowaday, women have no shame in having full fledged long-term relationships with married men. Then have a nerve to have not one but multiple kids with them to boot.
Many women, including myself, have had a run in with a married man; singing the usual married man hymnal about not being happy at home. The number one reason I haven’t partaken in such foolishness was because quite honestly, I couldn’t deal with the man having hiscake and eating it too. To put it another way, him having a wife and a girlfriend just didn’t seem rather fair to me.
He may tell you that he and the wife no longer share a bed anymore or he’s just staying for the kids. Either way he’s reaping all the benefits while you put your precious life on hold waiting for his calls or waiting for the leftover scraps he spares you. I guess part of a man is better than no man at all, huh?
While he continues to live his married life and the woman bides her time until he is hers, how many times does that fairy tail materializes? Even if this event becomes reality, the way you get him is the way you will lose him. Karma is a bitch.
I almost fell for the married man bait. Why are forbidden fruits so dang appealing? In another life, that married man would be the perfect partner. However, in this life he’s just not available. Married men conversations are always on point, the sexual attraction is definitely there but that wedding band should be like Kryptonite.
In this instance, think of yourself as having so much value. Why would you let a married man basically use you to release stress from his marriage and then go back home? I hear stories from friends about their flings with married men. They would make plans to meet; she will race home to prepare and he’s a no-show for whatever the reason. But, you’re the other woman. Your only requirement as the other woman is to take the scraps you are given and shut up, remember.
Definitely not putting all the blame or rightness on a woman. However, you can’t control the man but you surely can control your reaction to his advances. Who wants the headache of sneaking around and wasting your life away; while borrowing someone you have to give back eventually. Nevertheless, they always go back home.
Before you leap into the cess pool of cheating with a married man, put yourself in his wife’s shoes. It could easily be you sharing a man with the likes of someone like you.