Ideally, engaged couples should shop together for wedding rings, but this is not always possible if they are living far apart and cannot purchase the rings together. How can you buy the right wedding rings when you live far apart?
Correct Ring Size
First and foremost, it is important to make sure you know your fiance(e)’s correct ring size as well as your own. If you are not sure of your fiance(e)’s ring size, make sure they have their finger measured. The last thing you will want to do as you stand at the altar is struggle to fit the ring onto your new spouse’s finger.
Wedding Ring Style
Wedding rings vary so much in style that you cannot take anything for granted when you are shopping for the right wedding rings. That is why close communication is important. Find out what kind of style you should shop for. Does your fiance(e) prefer the idea of plain yellow gold bands? Or do they want a more elaborate design, with your names and date of the wedding engraved on the inside?
Wedding Ring Colour
Before you dash off to buy yellow gold wedding rings, speak to your fiance(e) to find out more about what colour ring they would like. You may be in love with buying matching yellow gold wedding rings, but your fiance(e) may prefer the idea of white gold or even platinum wedding rings.
Some people take it for granted that their future spouse will want a diamond-encrusted wedding ring to show off. But that is not always the case. Some people actually object to wearing diamonds on ethical grounds, so do your research before you zone in on diamond wedding rings and make sure the choice you settle for is in line with your fiance(e)’s beliefs and values.
Will the Wedding Rings Match?
Matching wedding rings can look stunning, but it is not necessary for couples to wear identical wedding rings, especially if you both have different ideas of what you would like. If your fiance(e) would like a plain bland, but you want your wedding ring studded with diamonds, one way to compromise is to have both.
Shopping for the right wedding rings when you live far apart is not easy. It takes time, patience and a lot of active communication with your fiance(e). Start off by making sure you have your fiance(e)’s correct ring size, and find out about the style and colour they would like to wear. Next, find out how they feel about diamonds and if they want matching wedding rings or not. You may be surprised to learn that your future spouse has completely different ideas on wedding rings than you do, which is why communication is so important on such an important matter.